So I am mad, No, infact, I’m beyond mad, I’m absolutely pissed off!
I had this friend and he was always and I mean always talking to me moaning about his girlfriends. Especially one. Even though this did get beyond annoying I always gave him advice. This advice I gave him he said a few weeks ago he would follow, which meant he would get rid of his ex out of his life because she made him feel like self harming. I did feel sorry for him so I gave advice I thought would suit him.
Last week I found out my advice was a waste of time, So, I blocked and deleted him on instagram and blackberry messenger. I couldn’t take being moaned at, give him advice and then he literally not take this advice. He would moan how bad she treated him and then a few hours later ‘I love her so much I want to spend the rest of my life with her’ So I thought the best thing to do was let him know how I felt before I blocked and deleted him and get on with my life.
Earlier this week, I was lying in bed, just on my phone because I wasn’t tired. He popped up on kik, which I forgot I had him on because I had only just recently installed it back on my phone. He sent me a few messages and I thought I’d let him know exactly how I felt because I felt an idiot just trying to give him the right advice. Thats when he dropped a big bombshell. He told me he had been told he had stage 4 cancer and the doctor had given him till Wednesday to live.
I told him I’m sorry for his news but I am still mad at how he treated me, he continued to say that they was ‘meant to be’ and I just told him to leave me alone in the end.
A friend of mine asked his ‘girlfriend’ if it was true that he had Stage 4 cancer and was given till Wednesday to live. She told me he had told her he had Stage 2 cancer and knew nothing about him apparantely only having until Wednesday to live. Ofcourse I was pissed because he knew I had lost a friend from school to cancer and just a month ago one of my college tutors had lost her battle.
The next day he had posted something on his instagram where he said ‘Planning my future, need to know what I want to do with my life’ This got me thinking when my friend told me and she asked him ‘I thought you only had till wednesday to live because thats what you told my friend?’ Within a couple of seconds my friend got instantly blocked. So I reactivated the facebook I had him on and asked him. Withing seconds he blocked me on that as well. He popped up on Kik insulting me, asking ‘what the fuck I was doing’ and I asked him ‘I thought you had stage 4 cancer and was given till wednesday to live?’ He had only been diagnosed the other day, no treatment had started, but his reply was ‘I’m getting better I don’t have it anymore’ I told him It doesn’t just go away like that and he told me to go and die.
No one should ever joke or lie about having cancer. It’s disgusting, It’s horrible and to be honest, those who joke about it are sad human beings who need their heads sorting out.