I don’t know if it is just me but what makes me laugh the most is people who are in a relationship for less than 6 months and have known the person such a short amount of time and think it’s true love.
I’ve known my partner 10 years, been with him nearly 3 and it did honestly take me a while to realise he was the one. I’d had feelings for him for 6 years and when first getting together I didn’t know how long it would last, what to expect because he was my best friend for so long and so many people actually do say a relationship can ruin a friendship.
Anyway, I know someone who was in a relationship with someone who lives down here to study buy lives elsewhere with family and being together just 2 months and now shes expecting his baby. To me, she hasn’t known him long at all, she had probably known him a month or so before getting together and now she’s having his baby, it seems rushed.
I would rather be in a relationship a lengthy so that I can have loads of memories and have a lot to show for it before choosing to have a child together. I do love my partner, he means everything to me but it’s just how my grandparents did things and I see that as being something I would do. I can’t understand how people can be in a relationship, knowing them little time and then get pregnant and then expect it to last. Which some relationships do but most of the time relationships fall apart because as time goes by they learn more about the person and they don’t like the person that they have got to know.